Workday Blues

[Byrn]

I am at work, we have been busy for the last month, and the calls coming into the support center(where I work) are just piling up. I am in the middle of moving, and a divorce. I have a 2 year old son who lives with me. My personal life is in a mess, but I can see the light at the end of the tunnel. Getting rid of my wife is the best thing I can do right now. My finances are getting cleaned up and it looks like I will get to keep custody of my son. This might seem trite, but just typing out my feelings here seem to help settle my nerves.

[Byrn]

Well, the move is over finally. Now I can concentrate on the divorce. I am 25 and I am getting a divorce. I never thought or wanted to have to go through this. But my wife didn't want to make it work. It takes two to make a marriage work. I have been re-reading WOT and have found some wisdom there, accept what comes. That has helped a little. Also realizing just how two faced my wife is, that has eased the pain. I don't love her the same anymore.

[Byrn]

Well, I got my annual(sp?) review today, and I got a 4.5% raise. This is my first "white collar" job, and my first raise. I feel pretty good about it. My divorce should be in the works, I finally filled out all the paper work after putting it off for 2 weeks. I feel pretty good about that aswell. Turning 25 has been a mile marker in my life. My wife moved out ON my 25th birthday. How nice of her. I think it's teh best thing she has ever done for me:dozey: .
I have been thinking of trying to write again. In high school I aspired to be an Author. But I didn't have enough expirience to draw from. Now I have some emotional history to draw off of. Maybe I will write something with meaning. This is very relaxing to share with you all. I can speak with my parents about it, but I really don't have anyone else. Thank you for letting me Rant here.

[Byrn]

Okay, I need a little advice. My Wife left me about 4 months ago. The divorce is in the works. When is it okay to start dating?
I have already realized I don't love my wife anymore, and there is a woman I work with who is flirting above and beyond the normal work flirting. I know this is not loveline, but the majority of you who I know here are very level headed and I respect your opinions. Please PM me if you would like to.